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Mhmm… Sexy Lingerie
Tuesday, September 9th, 2008 | sex-appeal, style | No Comments
I’ve found this fun photo here, as I was randomly, un-innocently browsing the Internet. As I found myself instantly amused, I couldn’t help remembering all lingerie-discussions I ever had with men and women alike, from the classic “I so like this one”, to the “sexiest color? sexiest cut?”.
“It just won’t matter what I am wearing.”, a close friend of mine once said. “It will always go off so fast, nobody will ever notice”. She was in a long, passionate relationship with an Alpha-man, who was always waaaay too excited to even pay attention to her lace underwear. To him, she was extraordinary and enchanting anyway. Which I consider beautiful and extremely healthy, and I also think each and every woman should find herself a similar place in her boyfriend’s heart. But no, oh no, this does not mean women should give up looking for the perfect turn-on in their underwear closet. There is never such a thing as enough flame, or enough turn-on in a couple’s life, as love is a delicate creature, nurtured out of fire and beauty, and one can never get enough of these ones, right?
Now lets get back to our lace-and-silk subject…
We are not what we wear, but whatever we decide to wear express us, and that goes strongly for the bedroom, too. Actually, when it comes to a lady’s boudoir, the concern should at least equal same lady’s shoes or dresses, because this sweet aesthetic delight is destined to particularly and intensely please only the above mentioned lady and her dearest one, supposedly the most important people in the lady’s life. No gradma panties allowed when it comes to hot, and that goes too for any old, improper piece of underwear. I mean, don’t do this mistake ever, even if you don’t consider yourself a lady and you already have a man that promised to love you and only you no matter what. It’s just horrible. And dangerous in some very, very bad sense. You don’t wanna show yourself like a total mess, do you?
Investments are strongly advised. Even if nobody except you won’t be able to spot the quality of your lingerie, you’ll know and feel confident about it. Confidence is a great weapon and it makes a woman a lot more interesting and attractive. It’s also improving one’s mood, one’s spirit and even one’s health. Confident women are the ones aware of their femininity, and happily expressing it. Confident women rule the world.
So, first of all, make sure you know yourself, and your body, you know what fits you best and what doesn’t. You can try different styles and see what it goes and what it fails, you can even try imitating someone you admire, everything is permitted when you’re struggling to discover yourself. Then, use what you know, and go on expressing. If you’re strong and independent, go for bold colors, if you feel very sexual try transparencies, deep cuts, even leather, if you are more discrete get the lilac and beige pieces, they’ll suit you great, if you love refinement buy lace, if you’re the sensual type choose silk, and so on. Don’t be afraid to explore and don’t be afraid to get creative, you have only two rules to stick to: always go for quality stuff and always remain faithful to yourself. Because it’s something you deserve and owe to yourself.
Personally, I think the sexiest in lingerie is combining ladylike refinement with eye-appealing materials and cuts, and I would forever consider black, burgundy, plum and dark blue as most attractive colors to be worn in bed. But I also believe that a woman is at her best when she is comfortable with who she is and what she’s wearing, so role-playing definitely forbidden: if yellow and simple, sporty style makes you feel like a goddess, go for it. It’s the only way to sexy, and it goes through confidence.
A Few of My Favourite Things
Saturday, September 6th, 2008 | arts, sex-appeal, vintage | No Comments
A funny and full of sex-appeal performance adding lots of spice to the classic My Favourite Things from The Sound of Music.
Well, ok, I guess I can also share something here. The more, the merrier. So, my favourite things: white silk, black velvet, high heels, sandalwood, long kisses in dark corners, heavy winters and heavy snow, cream, hot tea, bold men, strong wills, wine, indigo paper, perfume bottles, good manners, grace, drama, trains, courtship, countrysides, fireplaces. Intuition. And smarts.
Time for evaluating them all, now: what are your favourite things?
Hot. Old School Hot
Friday, August 1st, 2008 | arts, sex-appeal, vintage | No Comments
I was surfing the Internet when I ran into this beautiful pic at alexandrahager.com. Vintage-like, cozy and so full of some one-of-a-kind, incendiary sexuality that almost made me wish for purple tights and winter. Especially winter. Please notice the sensual leisure posture of the character in the left, the “male” pole of the photo, in contrast with the fire-setting girl in tights, whose concentration further arouses image’s inner tension. You can tell there’s a whole story going on and you can feel the intensity of it. Charming picture. And so it seems I just can’t stop my poor head from filling itself with late December fantasies. Smell that cold, fresh air? Too bad it’s only August.